Just Right

Goldilocks and the Three Bears

And [they are] those who, when they spend, do so not excessively or sparingly but are ever, between that, [justly] moderate

25. Surat Al-Furqān (The Criterian; 67)

I believe that moderation is different for everyone. Take the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears, we know that Goldilocks likes the things that are just right. For her. What's right for Goldilocks, apparently is right for the little bear. Maybe because they're the same age or height and so on. With money, we need to consider a few more things. For example, person A & B both makes $60,000/year but one lives in an expensive city and the other in a suburb with a lower cost of living. What's right for each of them will be very different.

Reducing spending in step 22 and saving money on groceries in step 23 is trying to find that sweet spot with our spending. We cut the things that we can actually live without for a while (or forever). It can be anything, we just have to pay attention to the things we spend on. With food, the main purpose of food is just to keep us alive. If we strip things down to the core of only needs, we will probably only need to fulfill our basic nutritious needs and stop eating Doritos (I can't!). We don't have to go to the extremes. Find what we really need, and budget in what your wants are, moderately.

Like Goldilocks, it's all about in finding what's just right.

It's too small, it's too big, it's just right?